Are you taking your private, public? As beautiful as you are why do you have to show your body in order to get attention. I mean show it in a way that would label you as a 'low class' prostitute or a stripper. These are people who exploit their bodies in exchange for a sexual favors, encounters, or fantasies. Why am I saying 'low class?' The bible says:
What a sick heart you have, says the Sovereign Lord,
To do such things as these, acting like a shameless prostitute.
In fact, you have been worse than a prostitute,
So eager for sin that you have not even
Demanded payment.
Prostitutes charge for their services-but not you!
You have gifts to give your lovers,
Bribing them to come and have sex with you.
So you are the opposite of other prostitutes.
You pay your lovers instead of their paying you!
Ezekiel 16:33, 34
What price are you talking about Sonya? They bought you a drink, they said that you were cute; you get more attention when you dress this way. They don't have to pay the price for you. They don't call you unless they want sex, they don't want to date you, or marry you for that matter. They just see you as a 'CALL GIRL'. You want everyone to give you what you can't give yourself, "LOVE, HONOR, & RESPECT." They use to place on the door of a business before entering, no shoes, no shirt, and no service. When you dress like this you are telling men that you are open to the public, no condoms required, no discretion is advised, come one come all. Just come get a look, a feel, or if you want a touch. Admission is free.
Get in Free Before 11
You are allowing men to come to you on a first come, first service basis. My beloved sister and friend, you are smart, intelligent, beautiful, and gifted that you need to know that you are more deserving than allowing anyone to come along and fondle or handle you in away that is undeserving. Respect yourself; don't be so easy to give up everything. When you give it all up front, the only way to go from there is down.
Fast Tail
I remember as a young girl, the older women would tell the girls when they thought that they were going over board with all that prancing around, 'get somewhere and sit your fast tail down.' You have to understand that when you dress like this you're sending out signals that you are a piece of fast tail. When you are a fast tail, the only love you will receive will be that of the club. They are not going to marry you, date you, or even want to see you unless it's dark, in club, or in a room. (hotel room that is)
What has caused you to in the club for love?
Many of you grew up in a home where the father may or may not have been present, to tell you that you are worthy, that you are smart and that you are beautiful. You come from corporate attire by day into the attire of prostitute by night, no one would have known because you look like you have it all together but deep down inside you are hungry for love until you are willing to give of yourself for it. You think that if you give them what they want, they will give you what you need, only to be left alone again.
Just don't want to be Lonely
God wanted me to tell you that beauty comes from within and that you are not alone. That He is right there waiting on you to receive His love. The bible says, 'that man look at the outward appearance but God looks at the heart.' God sees your heart and He loves you in spite of you attire. He wants you to know that you are worthy of someone loving you, just for you, not your body, but for you. In the bible there was a woman at the well and Jesus knew that she had, had 5 husbands and the one she now has was not her husband. He knows how many men you have picked up at the club. Jesus told her that if she knew the gift of God and who it was that was asking her for a drink, that she would never have to come to this well (club) for water (love) again.
What am I saying; Jesus wants to love you in away that you will never thirst again for love in a club. Jesus wants you to know that He has already paid the price for you when He died for you!!
All Day Love
Give your heart to Him. He will love you in the morning. He will love you in the noon day. He will love you at night. He will when you are up. He loves you when you are down. He loves you no matter what.
And there is NOTHING you can do about. He's waiting just for you!!!
Beautifully Speaking - Sonya
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